Let's Hold Hands

Hey ladies!

Listen up my lovelies.

Warning: This may get a little mushy.

I'm going to focus on you females this week because quite frankly, you're killing me. I'll just start out with the question this time; why do you feel the need to be so feisty to one another?!

To call the behavior between females an issue would be an understatement. It's a crisis situation, ladies!

"She looked at me the wrong way!" (She probably was looking past you, to tell the truth.)

"Why she walk around like she own the place?" (Maybe she does own the place; you don't know her.)

"She stole my man." (If your man wanted you, he wouldn't be with anyone else.)

"Why would she wear that?" (Because she wants to!)

I am simply baffled by the hostility that teenage girls have towards each other. You don't even give each other a chance. The judgement starts before you even learn her name! If she is pretty, you hate her. If she is loud, you hate her. If she has the same shoes, went out with the same boy, does her hair the same way as you do, you hate her. Its crazy, because most of the time, you don't even know a thing about the girl! We are all guilty of it.

I think, and this is just silly ole me, that you guys are just jealous. You're driven by the wrong things! Girls want guys. You want their attention, and you want it all to yourself. However, sweethearts, guys come and go. Whether you want to admit it or not, you feel threatened by other girls.

All I'm asking you to do is realize that you are absolutely beautiful and fantastic. Every single one of you. There's only one of you. Some other girl may have the hair you want, but you have gorgeous eyes! Maybe Shirley has the butt you wish you had, but your skin is flawless! You can't have it all. You are perfect. God custom made you; how could you not be perfect!?

You guys are GULPING the Haterade these days. Girls complain about how guys are jerks. Guess what? You're worse to each other! It saddens me to watch. Friends fall apart, cat fights break out in the hall, names get called, but for what? I just don't understand.

Please approach the next girl you meet with kindness and zero judgement. Be confident in yourself, and you'll find it easier to be accepting of other girls. I promise you'll find that there is so much more to the girls that you've hated over the years, things you never bothered to learn because you hated her right off the bat.

That is all.